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PROSTRATE PLEASURES

Prostate orgasms are perhaps the most intriguing aspect of male sexuality. They are so interesting because so few people actually know about them. When done correctly, a prostate orgasm is not just powerful- it can be up to 400% more intense than a penile orgasm (and can last several minutes)! Isn’t this reason enough for most men- and most women- to know about them? I certainly think so. It is quite difficult for a man to give himself a prostate orgasm. This is where you, his lover, comes in. You’re the one who’s going to give him body-jolting orgasms! So are you ready?!

The Prostate’s Function

The prostate’s job is to store and later secrete an alkaline fluid that makes up about 25-30% of the volume of semen. It is
Prostate orgasms are perhaps the most intriguing aspect of male sexuality. They are so interesting because so few people actually know about them. When done correctly, a prostate orgasm is not just powerful- it can be up to 400% more intense than a penile orgasm (and can last several minutes)! Isn’t this reason enough for most men- and most women- to know about them? I certainly think so. It is quite difficult for a man to give himself a prostate orgasm. This is where you, his lover, comes in. You’re the one who’s going to give him body-jolting orgasms! So are you ready?!

The Prostate’s Function

The prostate’s job is to store and later secrete an alkaline fluid that makes up about 25-30% of the volume of semen.

Side View of the Prostate
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis. The prostate is just in front of the rectum. The urethra runs through the centre of the prostate, from the bladder to the penis, letting urine flow out of the body.The prostate secretes fluid that nourishes and protects sperm. During ejaculation, the prostate squeezes this fluid into the urethra, and it’s expelled with sperm as semen.
The vasa deferentia (singular: vas deferens) bring sperm from the testes to the seminal vesicles. The seminal vesicles contribute fluid to semen during ejaculation.

Without the Christian church of the Middle Ages, Sigmund Freud of the 19th century would have been out of work. Many of the deepest ideas and notions of sex that we hold today were formulated and laid down in the Middle Ages, especially by the Church’s sometimes confused and other times severe pronouncements.

Prostitution thrived in the Middle Ages, whether it was approved by the Church or not. In larger towns, prostitutes could practice their trade in anonymity and it was regarded as an honest and essential profession.

For a time, the Church actually approved of prostitution. Ironically, the practice was regarded as a way of preventing adultery and homosexuality on a larger scale, so it was viewed a necessary evil. St. Thomas Aquinas, one of the sterner theologians, wrote: “If prostitution were to be suppressed, careless lusts would overthrow society.”

The most respectable prostitutes worked in brothels, or “stews.” Most villages had one. In some villages, prostitutes had to identify themselves by particular pieces of clothing, such as a veil with a yellow stripe. Women who practiced outside of a brothel were often exposed to the harsher elements of society. Some were imprisoned, tortured or mutilated.

The Church had opinions and laws about every aspect of sex. Adultery and fornication in some cases were sins punishable by death, but for a time the Church actually condoned prostitution, admitting that it was a necessary evil. And in the early part of the Middle Ages, priests were actually allowed to marry and have children.

But despite the Church’s overall opposition to sex, it appeared to be very interested in the subject. Descriptions of sex acts were often described in great detail that sounded as if they were written with some enjoyment. One wonders whether if these early theologians were just a little titillated by the subject as they wrote their long polemics on sexuality.

There are some references to the use of dildos by women in the Middle Ages, in particular, this one in a Church “penitential,” a book that prescribes punishments for sins.

“Have you done what certain women are accustomed to do, that is to make some sort of device or implement in the shape of the male member of a size to match your sinful desire? If you have done this, you shall do penance for five years on legitimate holy days.”

The word dildo was not actually used until the Renaissance period, according to the Oxford English Dictionary, but one fanciful explanation of its origin was a small elongated loaf of bread flavoured with dill, thus “dilldough.”

THE MOUSE

When I first saw the G-Spot Mouse, I was lost for words. Trying to describe all the fucked up ways internerds and vagina might finally cross paths (sort of!) was enough to give me a severe panic attack. So I took a breath, broke it down and recognized the possibilities one by one.

1. There’s no link to buy it, which leads me to believe that much like the g-spot, this mouse doesn’t actually exist.

Picture this: a generation of young men raised on porn who don’t understand why slapping it won’t open their email  .it won’t work right unless you buy it perfume and remember its birthday.

8. Your boyfriend would use yours a whole lot more if it gave him “quick access to his favorite page or e-mail”, am I right ladies?

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Is sex addiction real?

We’re set to see movie star Michael Fassbender in a completely different light this January as he takes on the role of a sex addict in Steve McQueen’s Shame. Despite the subject matter the film is anything but erotic, instead it’s a cold clinical depiction of a condition that has grown in prominence in recent years.
Sex addiction has been at the centre of a string of tabloid stories as stars such as Michael Douglas, Tiger Woods and Russell Brand have admitted to suffering from the disorder and checked themselves into rehab for treatment. But while high-profile sufferers have helped to publicise the condition, the media coverage has also had a negative impact; leading people in some quarters to question whether it’s a genuine disorder or merely a handy excuse for errant individuals. We talked to the experts to find out.

So what is sex addiction?

The relationship counselling service, Relate, describes sex addiction as “…the term used to describe any sexual activity that feels ‘out of control’. That might be sex with a partner, viewing pornography, masturbation, visiting prostitutes, or any number of other sexual activities.”
While the compulsion might involve an action, sex becomes addictive for people in much the same way as drugs or alcohol. During sex, our bodies release a powerful cocktail of chemicals including dopamines. Sex addicts get hooked on this chemical high, but like all addicts their bodies become used to these chemicals as relationship expert Marisa Peer explains: ”Sex addiction is known as a ‘process addiction’ like gambling, the biochemical element is the release of dopamine in the brain that, in itself, becomes highly addictive and all dopamine addicts need more and more, so a sex addict will need more sex or more partners to get the same dopamine high.”
Through Sex Addicts Anonymous, an intergroup designed to help people who suffer from the condition in the UK, I was introduced to Craig (name changed to protect identity), a recovering sex addict.

Craig sought help in 1996 before he was even aware what sex addiction was. He says: “I didn’t need a special term to know that I had a problem – the chaos in my life told me that I had a problem.”

Craig realised he had a problem when he felt he was no longer in control of his actions: “In common with many sex addicts it took me a long time to admit even to myself that my behaviour was doing any harm, but even when I tried to stop I found I couldn’t. That forced me to admit that I had a serious problem that was bigger than I could handle alone.” Craig has been on the straight and narrow for a decade now but his addiction took its toll on his private life, leading to the breakdown of his marriage and the loss of a highly paid career, through stress.

He’s not alone either. As Marisa Peer says, sex addiction can take many forms but can invariably have disastrous effects on the sufferer’s private life:  ”Sex addiction ranges from watching internet porn to visiting prostitutes at every opportunity or picking up any type of partner to have sex… Many people find that once they engage in this kind of activity they can’t stop and normal sex no longer has any appeal for them. As a result people can lose money, status and the people they love, they also have to endure a huge amount of shame. I have worked with sex addicts who have been arrested for kerb crawling or cottaging with catastrophic results for them and their families.” Do you have a problem?Being promiscuous is one thing, but being an addict is entirely different, so how can you tell if you have a problem?

“Most sex addicts don’t actually enjoy sex,” Marisa tells me. “You can tell if you are an addict if you have a compulsive need to seek out and follow a certain type of sexual behaviour, that you feel unable to stop, that gives you less pleasure than you expected, where the thought of the act gives you more pleasure than the act itself. It feels as if it’s totally out of control and you continue with it in spite of the consequences.”

But the biggest problem facing addicts is admitting that they have a problem that is beyond their control. The majority of addicts will not be able to curtail their behaviour alone as they are caught in a cycle that can be extremely hard to break. Instead it is vital that anyone who thinks that they might have a problem seeks help.
While the debate over the clinical definition of the condition has yet to be decided; one thing that’s abundantly clear is that sex addiction is all too real for those who are unfortunate enough to suffer from it.